• empathy the connection tool for your relationship toolbox

    Empathy: The Connection Tool for Your Relationship Toolbox

    In previous articles, we have discussed some tools that help strengthen relationships.  Some of these topics have included tools for gaining a stronger sense of self, tools for confrontation and using your voice, tools for getting free of relationship gridlock, as well as tools for understanding the neurochemistry of the…

  • Prideful Gridlock

    Prideful Gridlock: Changing Posture and Perspective

    http://www.teachingchildrenphilosophy.org/wiki/The_Zax These iconic Dr. Seuss Zax characters are defined as argumentative, stubborn and prideful. Often, I’ll work with couples who are in conflict due to their different perspectives of the presenting problem. Issues such as finances, parenting, sex, and domestic responsibilities can cause couples to feel that they are going…

  • Just Love Yourself

    Just Love Yourself

      Just Love Yourself! How can you demonstrate patience if you are not patient and kind with yourself? How can you be forgiving if you are judgmental and unforgiving toward yourself? How can you show mercy and compassion to others if you are critical of yourself? How can you have…

  • 15 MORE Books Recommended By Counselors

    15 MORE Books Recommended by Agape Counselors

    As promised last month, here is another list of books that our counselors recommend. There are many books out there that our counselors recommend to clients regularly. Below are 15 of the books that are on the list. Click on the pictures to view these books on Amazon.com Book Store.  …