• Flushing Meadows Location St Louis MO 63131 Agape Christian Counseling Services

    Main Office on Flushing Meadows Drive

    Located at HWY 270 and Manchester Road — west of 270 and North of Manchester. It is across Manchester from Des Peres Movie Theater, next to the Courtyard by Marriott and caddy corner to the West County Mall. Easy access, right off the highway! 12801 Flushing Meadows Drive, Ste 100, St. Louis MO 63131  Counselors who see clients at this office:

  • the therapy is in the question

    The Therapy is in the Question

    Have you ever asked someone a question, only to have them answer with another question? It’s annoying! Isn’t it? In counseling sessions, you may notice that your therapist will do this to you a lot! Why do therapists ask so many questions? In short, that is where the therapy is! I asked our Executive Director, Darrell Provinse to elaborate on this and here is what he said: 1. TO GATHER INFORMATION There are many reasons why we use questions in therapy. There are many situations where the therapist is legitimately gathering information. Sometimes, it’s less about getting objective information and more about getting the perspective of the client. By asking a question,…

  • Our Response to Racial Injustice | AgapeChristianCounselingServices.org

    Our Response to Racial Injustice

    At agape, we often take several days before we respond to current events on social media. This is not entirely unintentional. We always try to do our best to make sure that our responses are well considered and clearly articulate our thoughts and feelings on contemporary issues. We also do not want our voice to be lost in the den of clamoring voices fueled by emotion, rather than tempered with reason. Our delayed response by no means indicates that we don’t care. On the contrary, our entire purpose is to facilitate growth and healing and change. We walk alongside people daily, who are tormented with grief, anxiety, fear, injustice, and…

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    Anger: A Multifactorial Approach

    by Darrell Provinse, MA, LPC, NCC, Director and CEO Anger. What is it? Anger is a God-given emotion that gives us energy to protect someone else or ourselves, or to take action against an injustice. Anger itself is not wrong.  What we do with anger or in anger can be very wrong.  Anger can very often signal that something is wrong with us with our relationship, in our psychological life, emotional life, or thought life, etc.  Anger is a secondary emotion.  Underneath anger, there is usually a variety of other feelings and accompanying thoughts.  Among the precursors to anger are the following: fear, frustration, pain, disappointment, shame, guilt, embarrassment, grief,…