• Ten Unhelpful Marital and Relationship Thought Patterns

    Ten Unhelpful Marital and Relationship Thought Patterns

    It’s natural to interpret what is happening around us.  As humans, we are continually interpreting our past, our present and our future as well as our relationships with others, our relationship with ourselves and our relationship with God. Many times the interpretation of circumstances in our lives is accurate, but sometimes it can be distorted due to fears of rejection, abandonment, failure, need for control, approval or perfectionism.  The way we feel, therefore, can interfere with how we think. Below is a list of some ways couples might struggle with distorted thoughts and communication patterns in their relationship. Ten Unhelpful Marital and Relationship Thought Patterns: Filtering. We magnify the negative…

  • Valentine's Day Sweethearts Candy

    The Best Valentine’s Day Gift: Another Chance

    By Cathy Downen, MA, MA, PLPC Love is a many splendored thing when you’re first dating Mr. or Miss Right, and Valentine’s Day seems to have been invented just for the two of you to celebrate your very special love. But after a few years of marriage (a few hours in some cases), when Miss Right has turned into “Mrs. Always Right” and Mr. Right has deteriorated into “Mr. Can’t Get it Right” (or vice versa), Valentine’s Day may seem like a trumped-up tradition of forced, and often expensive, displays of affection custom-made for commercialism, hyped-up expectations, and often disappointment. The gift industry would have us believe that flowers, candy…

  • 2015 St Louis Home Educators Expo

    2015 Greater St Louis Area Home Educators Expo

    March 19th – 21st Agape’s Director of Children’s Therapeutic Services, Carolyn Knarr, will be a speaker at the Home Educators Expo this year.  We will also have a table at the event, so please stop by to meet Carolyn and our other child therapists!  The purpose of the Greater St. Louis Area Home Educators Expo (GSLAHE) is to equip and encourage parents as they seek to raise and educate their children. The GSLAHE organization was created to provide the community with a conference that focuses on bringing educational and family topics to the community. We also strive to inform the community at large about home education. Click here for more……

  • Agape Counselor Tai Yong Moves to Taiwan

    Counselor Tai Yong Moves to Taiwan!

    It is with both joy and sadness that we announce that, after almost seven years at Agape, counselor Tai Yong will be leaving us this month. He and his family will be relocating to Taiwan to counsel missionaries and pastors. We will miss him greatly, but we can see his excitement as he prepares to go, and we know that he will be doing God’s work. We are happy that he will continue his affiliation with Agape through our AgapeOnline counseling program. We wish Tai the very best, and will be praying for God to protect him and his family, and to bless his endeavors!       While no…